Saturday, May 4, 2013

Post A-Z: The Leibster!


So there's this thing called the Liebster, which is an award that bloggers give to each other to recognize good blogs with fewer than 200 followers. I was fortunate enough to receive this honor from Ida over at Reflex Reactions during the A-Z blogging challenge (Thank You, Ida!), and wanted to get the challenge behind me before turning my attention to answering the questions, thinking up my own questions, and nominating other blogs.

If you do any research at all on the Liebster, you'll find it has many variations--some do 5 questions and 5 blogger nominations, others do 10 or 11. Ida asked 14 questions, which was awfully fun to answer, but I'm going to bring it back down to the 11 with the questions, and 11 with the nominations...

And, as luck would have it, this fits nicely with a post I had already planned to do when I started the blog--sharing some of the blogs I really enjoyed connecting with during the challenge.

Here are the rules to the Liebster:
1. Thank your Liebster blog award presenter on your blog. *check*
2. Link back to the blogger who presented the award to you. *check*
3. Copy and paste the blog award on your blog. *check*
4. Present the Liebster blog award to 11 blogs of 200 followers or less who you feel deserve to be noticed. See below. *check*
5. Let them know they have been chosen by leaving a comment at their blog. *check*
6. Answer the questions from your presenter, then note 11 random things about yourself before then forwarding on 11 questions from you to your nominees. *check*

Without further ado, here are Ida's questions and my answers.

1. What is the nicest thing anyone ever said to you?
I have a wonderfully complimentary husband, who says very nice things to me, all the time. I can't think of The Nicest at the moment, but I can assure you, it was undoubtedly quite lovely.

2. Something your parents taught you?
The value of hard work. Manual labor. (Haul firewood every weekend for winter warming? Check! Paint every fence post around a hundred acres? Check!) Working with your own hands to accomplish goals, not to rely on others to get where you want to go.

3. Have you ever dreamed of celebrities or famous people?
Not that I can remember immediately, though it sounds vaguely familiar, like I have at some point...

4. Do you have any quirks, rituals or superstitions?
I think of them as routines, and my mornings are very "the same." Take my meds, drink my coffee, put on breakfast, shower, up and down the stairs 16 times, check my email... I used to have some real "check the locks repeatedly" issues, but those have faded in my old age.

5. What's the most amazing thing you have seen in the sky?
Aurora Borealis in northern British Columbia, and the the Southern Cross from Australia. But a close runner-up is when we have 45 hot air balloons in the sky over Walla Walla each spring. I do adore that!

6. What's the craziest thing you have done with your hair?
We did a lot of strange things to each other's heads at boarding school. One night I braided a girlfriend's hair into tons of tiny braids. I don't remember if I let her do it to me... Ha! I've never been hugely adventurous with hair cuts or colors, but the sheer amount of hairspray in the 80s surely qualifies as strange now...

7. Have you ever seen a baby being born?
I chose not to look as Seth came out. It was enough just to PUSH. And I've never been in the room for any other babies as they've entered the world.

8. Have you ever been with someone when they died?
I have not. Yet.

9. Have you ever had a strange experience that you just can't explain?
Many times. One was while I was traveling to Canada for my Grandpa's funeral, by myself, in the dark, on snowy roads, feeling very alone and sad, and I just knew he was with me. Or God was with me and it felt like Grandpa. Either way, it was very peaceful.

10. Are you an excellent speller, bad speller, or thought you were good but use spell check a lot?
Pretty good. I don't often misspell things. I have enough of a sense to know when I'm off, and then look it up. I still have to say to myself "i after e, except after c." Wonder if I'll ever lose that?

11. Do you have/had any pets? Pick a favourite.
We currently only have one dog, Chief, a border collie; he is probably my favorite dog ever. We have had more dogs in the past, and I'm currently lobbying husband (Seth is helping) for a Welsh Cardigan Corgi, as I've always wanted one. But I also had always wanted to have (again, we had one when I was a kid) an Airedale Terrier, and that went over like a thud with our existing dogs a few years back... so I have a bit of work on my hands to get the Corgi approval process moving... As for favorite cats, I would probably harken back to sweet Princess, my Siamese cat I had during adolescence.

12. What was the last thing you said out loud?
Something to my husband about blogging being a lot of work, but being worth it.

13. Where are you sitting while writing this?
In a chair, looking out windows at brilliant sunshine, contemplating going for a walk with husband.

14. What does your name/names mean?
Sherilee is a baby backpack/sling in the Australian indiginous language, but I only heard that when I visited there in the late '80s. I can't find any other meanings online; I think my parents just liked the way it sounds. (I tell people all the time: "It was the '60s, who knows?" That seems to pass muster.)

Here are 11 random things about me:
1. I was at the beauty parlor with my mother (I was probably about 6-7 years of age) and I sat on the edge of one of those big chair/hair dryer things and the whole thing came over and broke. I still think about that incident every time I drive past that location in the town I grew up in (since I only visit there twice a year, at least it's not on my mind a lot!).

2. I can eat two days of leftovers, but then I'm done. This whole "make a pot of soup" and eat off it for a week? Can't do it. I can, however, make the same thing, over and over, for a few days. It just has to be fresh--like the same salad, the same basil-tomato-garlic pasta, etc.

3. I enter every HGTV sweepstakes that I find out about. It's a compulsion, even if I don't especially want *that* house. Twice a day, too (which is the allowable amount, of course).

4. I used to alternate between three hairstyles: super short (think Janine Turner on Northern Exposure), mid-length bob (think Molly Ringwald), and long-ish. I have now been long-ish for almost a decade, and people still come up to me and say "I can't get over that you have long hair." What? These are people who don't see me very often, but still. You have nothing else to say to me, other than remark on the length of my hair?

5. I am a very decisive shopper. I can enter a store, do one circuit and either have an item in my hand to purchase or have decided there's nothing here for me. Five minutes, tops. (This can drive some of my more "contemplative/browsy" friends a little nuts, but for the most part I a) shop alone or b) shop with likeminded cohorts.) I would also rather buy something, take it home to try it on at my convenience and risk having to return it, than go through the whole try-on thing in the store. I hate dressing room mirrors. I am also the designated returner for our family. I have not problem returning stuff. Didn't work? Take it back.

6. There is a very long list of celebrities I don't care for, and a short list of people whom I would watch in anything: Emma Thompson, Joseph Gordon Levitt, Laura Linney, Pierce Brosnan, Kevin Spacey. They could be eating breakfast, or painting their bathroom a new color, and I'd watch it.

7. Speaking of painting and color: there is nothing like watching HouseHunters to realize that the whole "you can paint any room whatever color you want, go for it!" is better in theory than in actuality. There are some colors that rooms simply should not be, at least not when you're going to sell a house. Maybe it's less about the color than the hue/tone/value. Strong colors seem to have a limited life span, in terms of feeling current and not dated. I'm sure my mother the interior designer will weigh in here...

8. I love trail mix. I love making my own trail mix so I can have exactly the nuts and exactly the fruit and exactly the sweets that I want in it. Even then, I will probably pick out all of one nut at a time. Or maybe all M&Ms. Maybe this relates to the quirks in the questions Ida asked?

9. I am opinionated (true story), but I am also extremely pragmatic. Tell me what the circumstances are and I'll adapt.

10. My middle name is Ann, and for  many years after reading, many times, all of Anne of Green Gables books I insisted on spelling it "Anne with an 'e,'" like Anne Shirley. I've since gotten over that.

11. I was quite the tomboy growing up. My mother used to make a deal with me to wear a dress one day a week in middle school (by deal, I mean, she made me). Now, I probably wear dresses/skirts by choice, nine days out of 10. Even on a "casual Friday" at work, I may pick a jean skirt over jeans.

Questions for my 11 nominees:
1. If you could have any exotic animal as a pet, what would it be and what would you name it?
2. What company would you love to be the CEO of and why?
3. What is one of your favorite lines from a movie?
4. What is one piece of advice you wish you could share with the whole world?
5. What is the first thing you think when you see someone walking down the street talking to themselves?
6. Where in your life do you value complexity?
7. What is your favorite sound?
8. If you came with a warning label, what would it say?
9. What did you invent that you thought would be a great invention until you found out it was already invented?
10. What item has been on your to-do list the longest?
11. What song title best describes your relationship with your neighbors?

My 11 Liebster nominees. You can accept and follow the same drill I've done, above. Or you can say, "Thanks, Sher, but wow I'm tired and I'll just say thanks and call it good." Your call. No one offended around here, that's for sure!

I discovered all these gems during the A-Z challenge.

Ashley at Ramblings of a Silly Girl. The girl's bloggin' from NYC! Loved all of her A-Z posts.

Mel at Rambling Thoughts. A fellow Pacific Northwest blogger, from Oregon. I enjoyed following her alphabet through areas I've been to, and learned things about the region I never knew.

Jenny at The Modest Peacock. Jenny picked a very interesting theme of snailmail for her challenge. I love me some snail mail, still!

B at Faith Laces. B is pregnant and running throughout her pregnancy, and blogging about it. I find her very inspirational!

Stefani at Dreams of Nyssa. I enjoyed many of Stefani's posts throughout the challenge. She's a wonderful photographer and crafty to boot!

Tracy at A2Z Mommy and what's inbetween. Tracy had an ice cream theme throughout the challenge--what's not to love?!

Angela at Whole Food Living. Angela posted beautiful food photography and interesting info about healthful eating.

Lisa at Diary of a Square-Toothed Girl. Lisa is my dear IRL friend who encouraged me to the the A-Z challenge. I adore her for so many reasons... you will love her too, I know. I am squeaking her in as she JUST arrived at 200 followers, but I can't NOT nominate her. She rocks.

Donna at Full Measure of Joy. Donna's posts are full of spiritual nuggets; I can always find something to inspire me in my daily God-walk.

Susanne at Mrs. Mandolin. Susanne blogs from Sweden, where she took on the challenge of learning a new tune for every day of the A-Z challenge. I always enjoyed listening, and was in awe of her musical talent (and beautiful instruments!).

Talya from Grace, Grits and Gardening. Three Gs I can get behind! Talya had interesting posts and made it over to mine to comment frequently too.

Whew! I did the Liebster! Thanks again, Ida, and happy blog-finding to the rest of you!



Why choosing Light as my OLW 2013
was the best choice, ever

Because every day I am shown opportunities to share Light, receive Light, Be Light.

This blog post.

This video.



This quote.
I said: what about my eyes?
God said: Keep them on the road.
I said: what about my passion?
God said: Keep it burning.
I said: what about my heart?
God said: Tell me what you hold inside it?
I said: pain and sorrow?
He said: ..stay with it. The wound is the place where the Light enters you.
-Rumi

This picture.



For more on OLW, see here.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Midweek reminder: Learning to love others more than we love ourselves


A-Z is over, and it was fun. Very fun. But it is also enjoyable to think about returning to some of my old blogging habits, and the midweek reminder is one of my favorites. I have quite a few tucked away to share in the coming weeks, but this one raised it's hand up from the drafts folder this morning and said, "Pick me! Pick me!"

“And so my prayer is that your story will have involved some leaving and some coming home, some summer and some winter, some roses blooming out like children in a play. My hope is your story will be about changing, about getting something beautiful born inside of you about learning to love a woman or a man, about learning to love a child, about moving yourself around water, around mountains, around friends, about learning to love others more than we love ourselves, about learning oneness as a way of understanding God. We get one story, you and I, and one story alone. God has established the elements, the setting and the climax and the resolution. It would be a crime not to venture out, wouldn’t it?” -Donald Miller

The sun is up, and my love for mornings and morning routines is running at about 100% today. I was just--moments ago!--standing in the kitchen, making my kale smoothie, stirring the oats, turning over Seth's egg muffins, watching the sun stream through some pretty grimy windows... and feeling very blessed indeed. Another day. What a gift.

Time to venture out! What does your day hold?


Tuesday, April 30, 2013

A-Z blogging challenge:
Z is for Zest


How about ending the A-Z blogging challenge with a dual meaning word?

Zest: The outermost part of the rind of an orange, lemon, or other citrus fruit, used as flavoring.



Zest: Spirited enjoyment; gusto.



Jessica has spirited enjoyment and gusto, eh?

Zest is also something you can find in words... I am prone to zest via exclamation mark. Many times I go through an email or something else I've written and take out exclamation marks all over the place, thinking, "You can't really be *that* excited about it, Sher!" (See, I couldn't resist dropping one in there.)

I appreciate zest--in my food and my life--and enjoy zest when others bring a little to the party as well.

I found zest in this poem:

i thank You God for most this amazing
day: for the leaping greenly spirits of trees
and a blue true dream of sky; and for everything
which is natural which is infinite which is yes

(i who have died am alive again today,
and this is the sun’s birthday; this is the birth
day of life and of love and wings: and of the gay
great happening illimitably earth)

how should tasting touching hearing seeing
breathing any--lifted from the no
of all nothing--human merely being
doubt unimaginable You?

(now the ears of my ears awake and
now the eyes of my eyes are opened)
-e. e. cummings

May you bring zest to all you encounter today!



I can't believe this is the last post of the A-Z blogging challenge. Thanks for sticking with me throughout, and to those of you who commented and became new followers--THANKS a bunch! Your patronage is appreciated, more than you know. 

Monday, April 29, 2013

A-Z blogging challenge:
Y is for Yellow













If you know me, at all, you know that green is kind of my "thing." I have countless green items--shoes, coats, hats, bags, scarfs, skirts, shirts, dresses, sunglasses, jewelry, nail polish, coffee mugs--you get my drift. I even have a Pinterest board devoted to the color.

So, yellow? A whole post filled with yellow pictures? Doesn't seem quite right, especially since I didn't devote G to green...

Truthfully, I have a kind of love-hate thing with yellow: there are shades I adore and want to inhale, but there are shades I wish could be banished from the universe. I remember the first time I saw 100% yellow come off a press, ink to paper, and I thought--horrors! that's awful! too bright, too garish! And I still do have that reaction, when I see many of the more "wow" shades of the color. But when I see yellow in nature, and the more mellow tones, then I am in love with the color.

And, whether there's any significance to it or not, pretty much every dream I have that is happy and memorable, yellow is a part of it. Yellow kitchens, yellow clothing, yellow fields, sunshine... If you read dream interpretation stuff (and/or take it seriously, a whole "other" matter), that's a good thing, it seems. 

And remember my One Little Word for 2013: Light? Yep, that word has yellow written all over it.

So today, I am yellow, and all that suggests: light, intuitive, clear, hopeful, happy, harmonious and wise. Yes, especially wise. That's the thing with interpretations, right? You get to take the stuff you like and ignore the rest!


What's this A-Z business about? Check out my kick-off post. And stay tuned for the random joy and nonsense I concoct during the month of April!


Saturday, April 27, 2013

A-Z blogging challenge:
X is for Xenodocheionology


The list of X words is, well, short.

But when I saw xenodocheionology (love of hotels, pronounced: zen-o-do-key-o-nol-o-gy), I thought, I can get on board with that! I wouldn't put me in the must-have-the-best-hotel camp, by any means, but there is something about staying in a nice hotel that is a little bit fun, a little bit luxurious. Someone else is going to make my bed? OK. I can call and have food delivered? Well, if you insist.

I was trying to remember the first nice hotel I ever stayed in... it might just be one of the Outriggers on Oahu. I have very fond memories of ordering up a lot of breakfast via room service there, and thinking, truly, this is the life. Funny what makes a 10 year old feel special.

I am pretty sure the most expensive hotel I ever stayed at was bunking with (code for: someone else paid) my brother while he was working/staying in LA, at The Peninsula. Quite a place! I think his favorite celebrity sighting there was Snoop Dog? I'm sure he'll correct me if I'm wrong.

Husband took me to NYC during our courtship (doesn't that sound romantic? It was.), and he booked us at the Lowes Regency. It was close to the park, close to midtown, and had great beds and pillows (very important in my hotel experience). When C and I went back last fall, we stayed at a little boutique place, the Carvi, also in midtown. It was tiny, but clean and decently appointed, and easy to walk everywhere we wanted to. Most important, it had free wi-fi. Who pays for wi-fi? Not me.

I read through Travel&Leisure's top hotels of 2012 and finally, at Number 43, I saw the one that makes my heart go pitter pat: The Four Seasons in Bora Bora. Wow, is all I have to say about that. Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of other out-of-this-world places on the list, but I have to say the hut-over-water thing gets me every time. Definitely on the bucket list.


What's the nicest hotel you've ever stayed at? Would you go back? And what's on your bucket list?



What's this A-Z business about? Check out my kick-off post. And stay tuned for the random joy and nonsense I concoct during the month of April!

Friday, April 26, 2013

Friday night grateful moment


I couldn't resist sharing the art above, based on my earlier post for W in the A-Z blogging challenge: Wake up! Seems to go along with the theme...

This afternoon, the guys and I were fortunate enough to have some time together in the yard. I was of course amazed at the number of weeds that have found their way into the flower beds already, but they will be banished easily enough. I warned the weeds I wasn't able to get to today that I'll be back. (And I said it in the Arnold Schwartzenegger voice, too! Very effective for weed killing, I've found.)

I am so grateful for the spring color, for all the buds and blossoms and greenery, everywhere! I got a few flowers tucked into pots, and will finish filling the pots gradually, as I see additional beauties at the nurseries.

Gerberas are one of my very favorites, ever. I usually get as many colors as I can, every year.

Looks like another bumper crop year for strawberries!

Love the little faces on the violets.

We also turned the sprinklers on for the very first time, and so things got a bit of a bath. These chives were grateful for the drink!

I feel a rhubarb dessert coming on, over the weekend!

In many ways, this week flew by! There was a lot going on between work and home, and a few volunteer/side projects too. All the activity conspires to shorten the days, til I'm zooming around like a man woman! I am so grateful for the weekend, that it's here and that my guys are here too, and we will chill and peace-out for a bit together.

I'm grateful for interesting work, and interesting people to do it with.

I am grateful for soft sheets and plumped up pillows.

I'm grateful that when I can't fall back asleep in the middle of the night, I can listen to something mind-numbing like Larry King's new show on Hulu+, and I fall back asleep pretty quickly.

I'm grateful for all the flavors of spring. I have eaten more salads in the past two weeks than all winter... sad but true confession.

I'm grateful that somewhere along the way I got OK with not being liked all day every day by everybody. In my 20s, 'twas a different story; thankful for getting older.

I'm grateful for lunches with girlfriends. And texts. And short spurts of IMs (C, we really must connect one of these days!). And phone calls from dear ones while dish-doing. It's all good, these snippets of love and support.

I'm grateful for the opportunity to give back. I sat on a local foundation scholarship committee for the first time this spring and we hashed out the divvying up of the monies this week. It was invigorating and inspiring to see such commitment from a group of people who take very seriously the task of supporting young people into college.

I'm grateful for this experience of blogging A-Z, and all the fun new blogging interactions it's brought into my world. I will share more here about who I found and what inspired me the most; but as it winds down I'm almost sad to see it go. (Thank you to dear Lisa for encouraging me from the get-go.)

I'm especially grateful for the day of rest that is near, and for my family to share it with.

I hope your weekend brings you all the things you're looking for: if it's a list of honey-dos and a honey to do them, have at it. If it involves a hammock and iced tea, that sounds mighty fine as well.

Peace.



A-Z blogging challenge:
W is for Wake up!



I wake up
...on mornings when I arise with the sun, knowing that no matter what the day before held (and possibly even the night, if sleep was scant), all will be well.

I wake up
...in moments of clarity on a weighty matter on my mind; I breathe an audible sigh, knowing things will work out as they're meant to.

I wake up
...when I read words that resonate with me; words that remind me to stay true to what I believe and know to be right.

I wake up
...when I acknowledge the grief and loneliness that is inherent in being human on this planet, but also acknowledge the love and compassion that also exist.

I wake up
...when I remind myself of the blessings of love.

I wake up
...when I pray and meditate on life, and the peace and reassurance is palpable.

I woke up
...at a pivotal life change that I didn't/couldn't control (divorce). It busted me out of ruts and habits and patterns, and turned out to be the best thing that could have happened.

It wasn't until some time after that pivotal life change that I was able to see the difference, the before and after--how it peeled back all of my layers. I felt exposed, raw, and very awake. Even though it was downright uncomfortable, many times, I was able to see a lot of possibilities about my life that I hadn't considered in a long time, maybe ever. I remember describing the state as "wakefulness" to a couple of girlfriends at that time, and since; some get it, others look at me a bit askance.

A little later on down the path, past the actual crisis and flux, I reflected on how easy it would be to get comfortable, to snooze a little, and become complacent. I resolved not to nap, not to fall back into a sleepy existence.

The notion of never "life napping" has proved (and will continue to prove, I think) challenging. There's nothing this world appears to want more than to lull us into complacency. And it is very easy to be lulled--by whatever it is that creates a false sense of self for any of us... that can range from the shallow, shiny bling-bling of life, to real and significant distractions--work, accomplishments, the ridiculous notion that any of us are what we DO all day. I can't speak more thoroughly and thoughtfully to the commitment to staying awake than Pema; she never fails to inspire.

So, I wake up!

I wake up
...and reflect on the glorious notion that I have one more day to live and breathe and love and cry and laugh and work hard and feel keenly.

I wake up
...and count myself fortunate, as well as beholden to good fortune, in paying back and paying forward, remembering my responsibilities as a citizen of my community and the world.

I wake up
...joyful in faith, confident in love, and prayerful for peace.

I wake up
...and count myself so thankful to live, woken up.




What's this A-Z business about? Check out my kick-off post. And stay tuned for the random joy and nonsense I concoct during the month of April!

Thursday, April 25, 2013

A-Z blogging challenge:
V is for Vows


It's coming up on eight years since husband and I sat down to write our vows--by turns fun, and by turns "what were we thinking?" There was a lot of laughter and more than a few Google searches for appropriate words/phrases/poems. I remember sitting in his living room, me with my laptop, typing away, reading aloud, hitting the delete button a few dozen times, starting over.

When the day came to recite our joint creation, I was very glad we took the time to craft something together that we both would say. Now, I wish I could remember every word. I have no idea where the piece of paper is that I had been memorizing from...

On our first anniversary I penned the piece of our vows that I found the sweetest, to give to husband. I vaguely remember it is based off some old piece of poetry, but when I tried to find it recently, no luck. If you know who might have written something about keys and hearts, let me know!

There was a bit before, and a bit after, but this nugget in the middle was my favorite, and I'll never forget it:

I belong to you
You belong to me
Of that we are certain
You are locked in my heart
The small key has been thrown away
You must stay there forever

Seth was involved in the wedding planning with us, and around when we were writing vows. He found the whole "locked in my heart" and "throw away the key" thing quite amusing, even coming up with a funny little pantomime about it--only slightly mocking coming from a 9-yr-old... anyway, I had to make sure NOT to make eye contact with him during our vows, since I knew his little grin would put me into a fit of crying or giggles.



Have you ever taken a vow? What kind? If you got married, did you write your own wedding vows? How did that go?



What's this A-Z business about? Check out my kick-off post. And stay tuned for the random joy and nonsense I concoct during the month of April!

 
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